Can you MEN give us One Day, without Slut Shaming a Woman?? PLEASE??

Oh Come on Guys !!! Give me ONE DAY !!! Just one day when you are not going to slut shame some woman or the other.
 
I can understand the reasons for slut shaming Varnika Kundu were political. Not justified but still I understand where you were coming from. Though, I cannot figure the low levels you can achieve while doing this, I can still understand that you were pandering up to Political propaganda to secure your positions. But what was the reason to slut shame Lisa Haydon now??
 
Lisa Haydon posted a picture of her breast feeding her baby, in support of Breastfeeding Week.
 
Her caption read ” Breastfeeding has played such a big part in getting back into shape after giving birth to my baby. Breastfeeding has been challenging+time consuming (literally hours spent everyday trying to stimulate milk supply) but it’s such a beautiful way to bond and connect with your child plus all the nutritional benefits that your child gets from your milk.”
 
But rather than appreciating what she was doing, the Men decided to take it upon themselves to deride her thoroughly.
 
Here are some of the comments on her post.
 
“Can I suck your tits they look so delicious”
 
“Thats really disgusting….Girls like you are spoiling the soul of Motherhood. You should maintain the dignity of a mother. Bloody slut. Just want to show off your boobs despite of breastfeeding. Bloody Prostitute”
 
“Why dont you roam all naked in the streets. You just love being naked all the time. Whore of Bollywood”
 
“Show me your boobs openly you f%$%ing Lizard”
 
Seriously?? What is more dignified for a Mother than the fact that she is breastfeeding her baby? What else is the soul of Motherhood?
 
Does breastfeeding a baby make you a slut, a prostitute, a whore?
 
And then these guys want to suck on those tits?
 
Why?? Werent you guys breastfed when you were babies?? Did you get turned on while you were being breastfed by your Moms?? JERKS !!!
 
They find one of the most natural acts in the world as “Disgusting”??
 
So if breastfeeding a baby is disgusting what is beautiful?
 
Whipping our your tiny winkies in the middle on the roads to piss on the walls where is it is written “Yaha Pishaab karna mana hain”??
 
And I am sure when you guys lift up your hole ridden baniyans and start rubbing your hairy bellies, you think you look like a shirtless Hritik Roshan?
 
Or maybe you think that when you spread your legs in the most public places and start scratching your nuts irrespective of who you are making uncomfortable, you automatically qualify for the next Beauty Pageant in your city?
 
Ofcourse, when you bunch up your lungis over your knees showing off your skinny toothpick like legs, you feel the women looking at you repulsively are actually just one step away from falling all over you and taking you to bed, there and then, right??
 
It is Men like you who make people like me, hang our heads in shame.
 
It is because of Men like you, that when a Woman says, “All Men are dogs”, people like me have to hold our tongues and keep shut.
 
Because, we know that even though these Girls are generalising, they are speaking about the majority of us Men.
 
And while you guys might be going about screaming #NotAllMen to suggest that Not all men are perfect assholes, it is equally true that all Women, #YesAllWomen, have been subjected to some or the other crude behavior from Men.
 
I wonder, why the Men, cannot for one moment, pause and think that the woman you are trying to slut shame is also someone’s daughter, someone’s wife, someone’s Mother and someone’s sister. And over and above that she is a Woman …. with an identity of her own. And she has every right to have that individual Identity as you do or as anyone else does.
 
Infact if disgusting Men like you have the right to Life and Liberty, the Women have a much larger rights. Atleast they dont go about “Slut Shaming” the Men for all the idiotic things that we do.
 
Men like you dont just sicken the women, you sicken Men like me too.
 
So, the next time you open your mouths to abuse or shame a woman, look into the mirror. You will see an ugly picture of your own image. A dirty minded parasite who has no better thing to do than to exercise his imaginary power over women and tell them what to wear, what to eat, when to eat, when to talk, what to talk and what to do in general.
 
And then SHUT UP !!! Just SHUT UP and you will be doing the whole world a big favor.
 
Disclaimer: To the Mothers of all these “Sons” who are busy slut shaming other Mothers like you, wish you had insisted on the use of condoms, when the time had come to concieve these idiots. But its not too late to slap some sense into them…. Do It.

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